Hukum Jadi Orang Ketiga dalam Islam

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BANDUNG INSPIRA,- Sebuah pasangan suami istri menginginkan keluarga yang sakinnah mawaddah warohmah. Dalam mempertahankan sebuah hubungan agar tertap nyaman nan harmonis dibutuhkannya kerja sama antar suami maupun istri. Tidak mudah memang dengan membangun sebuah keluarga dengan arah yang terus mengalir , pasti disetiap hubungan ada saja cobaan yang dihadapi.

Kehadiran orang ketiga pun menjadi salah satu faktor dalam runtuh nya sebuah hubungan suami istri. Mengingat kehadiran orang ketiga ini bukan hanya menghancurkan masa depan pernikahan sah nya, akan tetapi masa depan penerus mereka yakni anak – anak.

Di Indonesia, kabar mengenai pelakor atau pebinor ini sedang ramai di masyarakat. Hal ini bersifat negatif dalam berbagai pandangan. Begitu dengan perspektif Islam, karena kasus ini merugikan satu pihak mendatangkan dosa yang besar.

Allah pun memberikan ancaman – ancaman yang tertuang dalam Al –Qur’an Surah Ar Rum ayat 41 yang berbunyi :

وَلَنُذِيْقَنَّهُمْ مِّنَ الْعَذَابِ الْاَدْنٰى دُوْنَ الْعَذَابِ الْاَكْبَرِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَرْجِعُوْنَ

Artinya :

“Dan pasti Kami timpakan kepada mereka sebagian siksa yang dekat (di dunia) sebelum azab yang lebih besar (di akhirat); agar mereka kembali (ke jalan yang benar).”

Adapun ancaman lain tertulis dalam surah An – Nahl Ayat 61 yang berbunyi :

وَلَوْ يُؤَاخِذُ اللّٰهُ النَّاسَ بِظُلْمِهِمْ مَّا تَرَكَ عَلَيْهَا مِنْ دَاۤبَّةٍ وَّلٰكِنْ يُّؤَخِّرُهُمْ اِلٰٓى اَجَلٍ مُّسَمًّىۚ فَاِذَا جَاۤءَ اَجَلُهُمْ لَا يَسْتَأْخِرُوْنَ سَاعَةً  وَّلَا يَسْتَقْدِمُوْنَ

“Dan kalau Allah menghukum manusia karena kezalimannya, niscaya tidak akan ada yang ditinggalkan-Nya (di bumi) dari makhluk yang melata sekalipun, tetapi Allah menangguhkan mereka sampai waktu yang sudah ditentukan. Maka apabila ajalnya tiba, mereka tidak dapat meminta penundaan atau percepatan sesaat pun.”

Dalam Agama Islam, keharmonisan dalam keluarga sangat penting bagi pasangan suami istri. Rasulullah SAW juga sangat melarang seseorang untuk mengusik keharmonisan rumah tangga orang lain. Rasulullah SAW bersabda :

“Dari Abu Hurairah RA, ia berkata bahwa Rasulullah SAW bersabda, ‘Bukan bagian dari kami, orang yang menipu seorang perempuan atas suaminya atau seorang budak atas tuannya,” (HR. Abu Dawud).

Dalam hadist tersebut menyebutkan bahwasannya, agama Islam sangat memandang buruk mengenai tipu daya yang dilakukan oleh perempuan kepada suaminya ataupun sebaliknya. Karena agama Islam, memberikan ancaman tegas bagi siapa saja yang berusaha untuk mengganggu hingga mengahancurkan rumah tangga orang lain hanya demi kepuasan dan meninggikan egois pada diri sendiri.

Adapunpendapata Al-Mubarakfuri dalam Sayarah Jam’i At-Tirmidzi halaman 369, yang artinya :

“Imam An-Nawawi berkata bahwa makna hadits ini adalah larangan bagi seorang perempuan (pihak ketiga) untuk meminta seorang lelaki menceraikan istrinya agar lelaki itu menalak istrinya dan menikahi perempuan pihak ketiga ini. Ibnu Abdil Bar memaknai kata ‘saudaranya’ sebagai istri madu suaminya. Menurutnya, ini bagian dari fiqih di mana seorang perempuan tidak boleh meminta suaminya untuk menceraikan istri selain dirinya agar hanya ia seorang diri yang menjadi istri suaminya. Kata Al-Hafiz, makna ini mungkin lahir dari riwayat dengan redaksi, ‘Janganlah seorang perempuan meminta perceraian saudaranya.’ Sedangkan riwayat yang memakai redaksi syarat, yaitu dengan ungkapan ‘Seorang perempuan tidak sepatutnya mensyaratkan perceraian saudaranya untuk membalik tumpah isi nampannya,’ jelas bahwa perempuan di sini adalah perempuan yang menjadi pihak ketiga. Pengertian ini diperkuat dengan redaksi, ‘agar ia (pihak ketiga) dapat menikah’, yaitu menikah dengan dengan suami saudaranya itu tanpa mensyaratkan lelaki tersebut menceraikan istri-istri sebelum dirinya.”

Dalam hadist diatas, pelakor atau pebinor (perebut laki orang atau perebut bini orang)  ini larangan nya sudah tertuang jelas. Jangan merebut istri atau suami orang lain, lebih baik mencari dan meminang yang lebih baik lagi. Dengan tujuan untuk membangun rumah tangga yang dipenuhi dengan kedamaian serta kenyamanan agar tercipta nya keharmonisan dan terhindar dari perpecahan. (NAD/GIN)

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